Genuine Intentions

Concerning women, it's very rough being a man of genuine intentions. You have to overcompensate for the many wrongs done at the hands of cats that are the complete opposite. Personally I have the type of confidence in myself where I don't feel it's so necessary for me to have to proove myself being of the genuine nature. I have a firm belief that I have the talents to bring a woman all of the mental, physical, social, and (yes) spiritual exercise needed to enrich her mind, body, and soul. So why should I have to proove myself? In a previous entry I wrote about women and the infamous claim that "men ain't *%@#". In a way I defended men to assert another valuable point of view, but by no means was I defending the nature of not valuing the essence of a woman. There are a lot of guys who don't deserve some of the loyalty they receive from women. Yet there are many that do. If you are worthy, then you're like me, and you understand the difficulty in intimate relationships as a result, not only in having to proove yourself, but inversely in designating boundaries to those women who quickly allow you past the comfort zone. Being a man of genuine intentions doesn't always mean being the guy who wants to jump into a serious relationship and lace the woman with every sort of void that she has been lacking. It means being respectful, compassionate, and the type of guy that would have no problem stating all of his intentions with a woman upfront, expecting no displeasure. So often does it occur that I meet a woman and she recognizes that I'm in school and going for something other than basket-weaving, respectable, respectful, my pants don't hang off my ass, and my t-shirts are sized to fit. As a result, she wants to take things so seriously and so quickly. Why? Probably because that idiot that broke her heart is a clear representation of my exact opposite. This can be good or bad. Most of the time it is bad however, because I'm not the type of guy to bounce from one to the next relationship how most people do dates; sometimes spontaneity is what I need to fill the gaps. A little getting to know, dating, conversation, kickin' it, whatever never hurt nobody; but to assume that I am the type of guy to just wanna be drawn into another emotional relationship and turn their post-emotional rollercoaster distress into a joyride is SO not fair to me. But if I choose not to be emotionally involved with her, then I'm just as much as the dog she left before she met me. Ladies, you see how this works? Not cool. Not cool at all. Fellas, what can we do (this only applies to the other guys with genuine intentions). As for you other womanizing twerps, in the ever-so-popular words of Dave Chappelle, "I hate you, I hate you, I don't even know you; and I hate your guts. I hope all the bad things in life happen to you, and nobody else but you."