The Nasty

Let's all be adults about this one; yet let us keep it real also.... The thought of sex can make some people sweat bullets with nervousness, some cringe their noses and say, "gross", some laugh reminiscing about the time they caught a cramp or almost got caught by their parents. I can remember being in junior high and hearing people having sex in the bathrooms. EVERY MAN has fronted on his sexual activity at one point prior to being sexually active. It's one of those things the make you laugh your ass off after being sexually active. I know I used to lie--saying that I had sex with girls whose names I used to make up and said went to other schools so that I wouldn't incriminate any of the girls at my own school. I think it's hilarious how people lie about sex. Before you are sexually active, you try to lead people to believe that you've been around the block because you were too embarrassed to admit being a virgin. Yet, later on in life, after you've had your share of moments, (i.e. a woman asks, how many partners have you had) you lie and disown some of those moments. If its 15 women we've been with, we say 9. If it's 9, we say 6. If it's 100 (damn!) we say 15. lol. Women are just as guilty but in a different way. See women will admit how many sexual partners they've had, but they have strict definitions for who actually qualifies as being "a partner". Later on when you find out that she's been intimate with more people than she admitted, she'll alway say, "Aw, him??!! See, that was different. All we did was _____. I don't count that." WTF! Not cool at all. Anyways, sex can do good and bad. If people are ready for an emotional boost to their relationships it can pose a benefit. After having some fire sex, it's like exhaling after holding your breath for weeks (??? or months--whichever); but once you start, it's easy to realize that sex can be the most addictive drug on the market if you don't posess the necessary willpower.